My Girlfriend

It is interesting to have a girlfriend and to think of her that way. We have not gotten physical with each other yet, but I feel that we will be progressing to that stage soon. I am not in any hurry, but I want her to know I am open to that. She had a very horrible tragedy about a month ago. I hope to strengthen our relationship as she heals from this. I don't want to upset her with my own stuff. At the same time I want her to feel she can call and talk any time she needs. Sometimes a woman just needs another woman to talk to. I have had a similar situation, and have shared my feelings and problems that arose from that. In some small way I think it has not only helped me but her as well. I have grown to love her even more as we have gotten to know each other. We met in hopes of having a physical relationship. I think my husband would grow to desire her sexually the more he got to know her, but I am not sure he wants to. That is fine with me, but I will not cut myself off from her because of either one of them. However I will not put my marriage in jeopardy for her, or anyone else. Any way I have babbled enough.